I've been off Facebook for 7 or 8 months. I get too addicted to it. Addicted to seeing what people are up to; snooping around on peoples profiles. Addicted to the little red notification number telling me someone "liked" or commented on my post. The other reason I deactivated my account is because I find myself thinking extremely judgemental thoughts toward people. I once heard someone say, "when you compare yourself to someones Facebook post you're comparing your 'behind the scenes' to their 'highlights'."
Nobody posts a picture of themselves with their besties with a caption that says "So blessed to have the most AMAZING friends in the world!", with the intent to make me feel like crap. But if I'm feeling lonely and isolated that day, that's exactly what it does.
Just like when I post a status that says, "My husband is the best!! I came home to a clean house, a beautiful bouquet of tulips, and my favorite dinner.", I don't mean to make anyone else feel bad. But if you and your hubby are going through a rough season, and you just got into a massive fight before reading my status, I'm guessing it might make you feel pretty bad.
The thing is, saying these things is not bad. It's good! But does it really need to be said for all of Facebook to see? What is the purpose of that? Wouldn't it be just as effective, if not more, to send your "besties" a card or a letter telling them how amazing you think they are? And couldn't I just tell my husband to his face how much I appreciate him?
When we do this over social media it's bragging. I'm sure this is never anybodies intent. But that's exactly what it is. I promise I am not casting stones. I have been the 'Facebook Bragger' more times than I care to admit. Any one of my friends could tell you that. It's just not right.
I'm not saying all status updates are bragging, but so many are. We were not created to blurt out every thought that comes into our mind. People do not need to know about every good thing we are doing or everything going on in our lives.
"Be careful not to do your 'acts of righteousness' before men to be seen by them. If you do, you will have no reward from your Father in heaven. Do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your giving may be in secret. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. For whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted." Matthew 6:1,3,4; 23:12